Inspiring Reads for Inspired Cooks: Part II

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Photo source: acappellabooks.com via google images

 

In the past six months or so, I have been getting much of my food inspiration (cooking, tasting, dining out) from reading chef biographies.  Welcome to Part II of my reviews of the books, and the inspiration or things I learned from each of the biographies.  If you missed Part 1, you can read here.

Sous Chef:  24 Hours on the Line

by Michael Gibney

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I actually read this biography about 1 to 2 years ago.  I wasn’t looking for chef biographies at the time.  I just happened to be at my local library, and this book caught my eye on one of their displays.

First, a little background on the author.  Michael Gibney was sixteen years old when he took his first job in a restaurant washing pots in an Irish pub.  Thirty minutes into his job, a manager told Gibney that he needed him to clean up a customer’s vomit in the foyer of the restaurant.  It was then Gibney decided he had to become a cook.  By the age of 22, Gibney had his first sous chef position in a restaurant.  (Source:  Sous Chef book)  Now on to the book…

This book was a fast, fun read (especially for a foodie).

Gibney takes the reader through a typical day (24 hours) in the life of a sous chef in a fast-paced New York City restaurant.  The book is written in the second-person narrative.  I found the narrative to be a little weird at first, but I get why Gibney wrote it this way.  It was actually very creative.  By doing this, Gibney puts you into the role of the sous chef in the restaurant’s kitchen, and wants to make the experience more intimate.  By doing this, you’re supposed to feel the adrenaline rush, pressure, but also the pleasure that comes with working in a restaurant kitchen.

“You’re second in command just below the chef.”

The words sous chef come from the French meaning “under chef”.

Kitchen Chain of Command

kitchen chain of command

Source: Sous Chef Book

I never saw a “restaurant kitchen diagram” like this one before.  I found it to be a good reference for the book and still today for a typical restaurant kitchen staff and the hierarchy of it.

The book gives a great glimpse into the workings of a restaurant kitchen and the interaction between all the staff and the roles each of them have.

Gibney begins the book with the sous chef showing up to work first thing in the morning – the kitchen is clean and more importantly, quiet.  In between his cigarette breaks, the day goes on and becomes more frenzied and stressful for the sous chef.  Throughout the book, Gibney gives a vivid and detailed description of the preparation of certain dishes needed for the day’s menu like filleting the monkfish and cleaning the foie gras.

The day finally ends with the “clean down” of the kitchen, and discussion of the prep lists needed for the next day’s menu.  After changing clothes, some of the cooks head out for a night of heavy drinking at favorite NYC bars in the area.  And then the blare of the alarm clock the next morning comes much too quickly…

Some Noteworthy Takeaways for Me From This Book

“A cook/chef’s knife kit represents everything they are as a cook and a chef.  Not only does it contain all the tools they need to perform the job, but its contents demonstrate their level of dedication to their career… The knives themselves tell how much the job of cooking means to them.  A dull knife damages food.  Chefs are there to enhance the food.  Extremely sharp knives are essential for this purpose.”

“A good cook almost never misses a shift.  He takes ownership of his work; he takes pride in it.  He understands how important he is to the team and he will avoid disappointing his coworkers at all costs.”

Gibney includes several pages of “Selected Kitchen Terminology” at the end of the book.  He provides many cooking/chef terms and the definition of each of them.  Some of them are pretty well-known like à la carte, bistro, cuisine, and risotto.  Many of them, though, less so such as:

boudin blanc – a pork-based “pudding-style” sausage which typically contains liver, heart, milk, and sometimes eggs and other ingredients

entremetier – a vegetable cook

pommes fondant – a dish of potatoes cooked in stock (usually animal based) and butter

temper – to slowly introduce (food) to heat or warmth without actually cooking:  “to avoid scrambling the custard, you must first temper the eggs by slowly drizzling in the hot milk, whisking constantly”

(Source:  Sous Chef)

Kitchen Confidential:  Adventures in the Culinary Underbelly

by Anthony Bourdain

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Once I got past Bourdain’s potty mouth and his descriptions of the “sex, drugs, and rock ‘n roll” that occur in a restaurant kitchen, I actually liked this book and came away from it with some useful tips about dining in restaurants.

Bourdain states in his book that his cooking life has been a long love affair.  His love of food began at the young age of ten when his family traveled to France, and Bourdain experienced many new foods for the first time.  For many years now, Bourdain believes good food/ good eating is all about taking risks and is an adventure.  I would have to agree there is much truth to that.

Bourdain shares “the good, the bad and the ugly” about the restaurant business in his book.  I found some of the information to be useful for me – the diner in a restaurant…

Most Noteworthy Takeaways for Me From This Book (all suggestions/statements from Kitchen Confidential)

Bourdain writes, “I never order fish (in a restaurant) on Mondays unless I’m eating at Le Bernardin – a four-star restaurant where I know they are buying their fish directly from the source.  I know how old most seafood is on Monday – about four to five days old!”

“At a fine restaurant, the chef places a large order for his fish on Thursday for a Friday morning delivery.  The next fish delivery is not coming till Monday. The chef is hoping to sell most of the fish on Friday and Saturday night.  He then is hoping to unload his leftover fish on Sunday in a seafood salad for brunch, or as a ‘special’ on Sunday or Monday night.” Diners beware the word, “Special”…

If you saw the movie, The Big Short, Anthony Bourdain had a cameo in it describing the above concept, and comparing it to a collateral debt obligation.

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“Never order a hollandaise sauce at a brunch.  Bacteria love hollandaise.  Hollandaise is a veritable petri-dish of biohazards.”  “Also cooks hate brunch.  A wise chef employs his best line cooks on Friday and Saturday nights, and will be reluctant to schedule them again for Sunday brunch especially since they went out after work and got hammered.”

“I won’t eat in a restaurant with filthy bathrooms.  They let you see the bathrooms.  If they can’t be bothered to keep their bathrooms clean, just imagine how their refrigeration and work spaces look like.  Bathrooms are relatively easy to keep clean.  Kitchens are not.”

“Shrimp? All right, if it looks fresh, smells fresh, and the restaurant is busy, guaranteeing turnover of  product on a regular basis.  But I’ll pass on the shrimp toast.  If I walk into an empty dining room, and the owner staring out the window, I’m not ordering the shrimp.  The same principle applies to anything on a menu actually, especially something esoteric and adventurous like bouillabaisse.  The key is rotation.  If the restaurant is busy, and you see bouillabaisse flying out the kitchen doors every few minutes, then it’s probably a good bet.”

“Look at your waiter’s face.  He knows.  It’s another reason to be polite to your waiter:  he could save your life with a raised eyebrow or sigh.”

Yes, some of this is common sense, but it sure makes me think a little more each time I’m walking into a new or unknown restaurant.

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President George W. Bush awards the Presidential Medal of Freedom to Harper Lee in 2007 Source: google

President George W. Bush awards the Presidential Medal of Freedom to Harper Lee in 2007
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On February 19, 2016, we lost beloved author, Nelle Harper Lee.  To Kill a Mockingbird was, and still remains one of my favorite books.

Harper Lee, Rest in Peace…

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Inspiring Reads for Inspired Cooks – Part 1

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I aspire to be a better cook!

Michael Ruhlman
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Mise en place

According to Michael Ruhlman, in his book,  Ruhlman’s Twenty:

“Mise en place translates literally to “put in place,” but what it really means is to “organize and prepare”.  It means everything in its place, on your countertop, beside your stove, on your stove, and most critically, in your mind.”

This concept is used mainly for prepping in a restaurant.  However, Ruhlman further states that “there’s no reason mise en place can’t work in a home kitchen as well.  All you have to do is to decide to do it.  Stop and think before you begin.  The importance of it cannot be overstated.  It doesn’t mean simply putting all your ingredients in ramekins next to your stove.  It’s ultimately about thinking, organizing, and planning your course of action.”

I think most good chefs would agree.

A good place to begin becoming a better cook, wouldn’t you say?

 

For the past six months or so,  I’ve been getting much of my food inspiration (cooking, tasting, eating out) from reading biographies about chefs.  Here’s the firsts of my reviews, and the inspiration or things I learned from each of them.  Maybe they will inspire you too!

Several years ago, I read my first chef biography:

 LIFE, ON THE LINE

 by Grant Achatz and Nick Kokonas.

inspiration from reading Life on the Line

I happened to be browsing cookbooks at a Barnes & Noble, and this book caught my eye.  Hailing from Chicago, I was already familiar with Grant Achatz.  I was aware of the accolades associated with Chef Achatz, and his restaurant Alinea.  I also knew he had been previously diagnosed with stage 4 cancer of the tongue (the sense of taste being vitally important to a chef), knew he had chosen a radical treatment for the cancer, and ultimately beat it.  After flipping through the book, I knew that I wanted to purchase and read it.

I was smitten with this book from the first couple of pages:  Achatz’s early introduction into the world of cooking by the age of five.  I was captivated by his culinary journey including working at his family’s restaurant, attending the Culinary Institute of America, and working for his mentor, Thomas Keller, at the French Laundry Restaurant for 4 years.

inspired by Chef grant Achatz / eating at Alinea

Alinea’s scallop, citrus aroma, fourteen textures
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 A pivotal moment occurs for Achatz while working for Chef Keller.  Keller arranges for Achatz to “stage” for Chef Ferran Adrià at elBulli Restaurant in Spain.  (Stage essentially means briefly working without pay in another chef’s kitchen to learn from them.)  It is there that Achatz is first introduced to Adrià’s deconstructed cooking (similar to molecular gastronomy).  Achatz only stages for three days at elBulli, but goes back to California “reeling and immensely inspired” from the experience.  It is only a short time after that, Achatz knows he needs to leave The French Laundry and find his own kitchen to run.

After leaving The French Laundry, Chef Achatz becomes Executive Chef at Trio in Chicago.  It is while working there, he meets Nick Kokonas who dines at the restaurant often with his wife.  Together Achatz and Kokonas go on to co-found and open the restaurant, Alinea.

  Reading about Achatz’s battle to beat the cancer was also a compelling story.

inspiration from Chef Grant Achatz and Alinea's edible helium balloon

Alinea’s edible helium balloon made of green apple taffy
Photo source: Alinea Restaurant

Special note:  As of December 31, 2015, Chef Achatz closed Alinea for extensive renovations.  In the meantime, he took his entire team to Madrid and Miami for 40 unique services.

Most Noteworthy Takeaways for Me From Reading this Book

I was truly inspired by Achatz’s drive to become a better chef at each step in his career.   I even attempted (on a much simpler level) a couple of the gastronomic dishes Achatz details, and experiments with prior to opening Alinea.  The book also inspired me to try to cook and experiment more with different flavors and ingredients.

Special Note:  This book was the first time I heard of Chef Ferran Adrià and elBulli Restaurant.  Since then, after reading other chef biographies and watching cooking shows, I now know he is considered one of the best chefs in the world, and one of the most creative and highly admired chefs.

Life on the Line also gave me great insight into Chef Thomas Keller – things like Keller’s constant pursuit of perfection, his passion for cooking, and taking the time to personally teach cooking techniques to his staff.  I gained an appreciation of why The French Laundry continues to win accolades (and why it’s so expensive).  It also motivated me to check out The French Laundry Cookbook.  So that’s where I went next…

THE FRENCH LAUNDRY COOKBOOK

by Thomas Keller

Inspiration from French Laundry cookbook

Most Noteworthy Comments Made by Thomas Keller in this Cookbook That Stayed with Me

“Cooking is not about convenience and it’s not about shortcuts.”

“Take your time.  Move slowly and deliberately and with great attention.”

Keller states his greatest hope in using his cookbook is that “you create something that you have deep respect and passion for.”

Keller’s law of diminishing returns:  “basically means your initial bite into a dish is fabulous.  Your second bite is great.  However, by the third bite, and knowing there’s more of the same dish left to eat, the flavors begin to deaden in your mouth.”  This is one of the reasons his restaurants serve tasting menus.  (Makes sense to me)

“If a recipe’s difficulty exceeds your desire to make it, it’s ok – just make part of the recipe.”

“Trust your instinct.”

Have I made many of the recipes in The French Laundry Cookbook?  No, but the book definitely made an impact on me to be more passionate, thoughtful, and embrace my time cooking in my kitchen, especially for other people.

I am now a huge fan of Chef Thomas Keller.

ON MY BUCKET LIST…

Eat at Alinea in Chicago

Eat at one or both of Thomas Keller’s restaurants: Per Se (New York City) or The French Laundry (Napa)

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“A recipe has no soul.  You as the cook must bring soul to the recipe.”
~  Thomas Keller
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Taste of the Coastal South Dinner Party

Some info about our Gourmet Group:  We are 4 couples who enjoy cooking, entertaining, and most of all, each other’s company. 
We take turns hosting in our homes.  The hosts decide on the menu (theme) from appetizers to dessert for the evening.  The hosts cook most of the meal, but give at least one course (along with all the recipes) to the other couples to prepare.  We love trying new recipes and ideas.  So most of the time the recipes are ones we haven’t cooked before, but they don’t have to be.

coastal dinner tablescape

Another couple hosted our Gourmet Group last month.  Our theme for the evening was “A Taste of the Coastal South”.  Here’s a look back at it.

HER TABLESCAPE

She used blue – the color of the ocean (on sunny days) – as the primary theme for her table…

blue coastal tablescape

beach / shell table ideas

Shells and white candles played an important role too…

beach / ocean tablescape

coast dinner party theme

PLACE SETTINGS

She used shells for place card holders…

beach theme table

THE MENU

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COCKTAILS & APPETIZERS

chicken bacon bites - appetizer ideas

We devoured the Chicken Bacon Bites with Orange Marmalade…

crabmeat cheesecake appetizer

Luscious Crabmeat Cheesecake…

DINNER IS SERVED

southern coast dinner party menu ideas

mixed greens citrus salad

Mixed Greens Citrus Salad with French Toast Croutons – refreshing…

southern succotash

Southern Succotash

shrimp and cheesy grits

 Shrimp with mushrooms, green onion, and bacon – Yum!!  Served with a southern favorite – (cheesy) grits…

DESSERT

We were in charge of making the dessert, Hummingbird Cake.

Hummingbird Cake - a southern favorite dessert

Since the magazine, Southern Living, originally ran the recipe in 1978, it has become the most requested recipe in Southern Living’s history.  (Source:  Southern Living)

A couple of photos I took while making the cake…

southern dinner party menu idea

hummingbird cake

Hummingbird cake is a banana-pineapple spice cake (very similar to a carrot cake) typically served with a cream cheese frosting.

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The recipe actually called for chopped pecans on top.  Since we served the pecans on the side, I took the liberty to add a few M & Ms  to the top of the cake so it didn’t look plain.  I wish I would have added some edible flowers instead (…next time)

humminbird cake - a southern favorite

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‘Twas delicious – you can never go wrong with cream cheese frosting…

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Even the artwork in their dining room complemented the color theme of the evening…

 

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An “Out of Africa”/ “Circling the Sun” Tablescape and Book Club Lunch

an "Out of Africa" tablescape

I hosted my Book Club last week.  The book we discussed was Circling the Sun by Paula McLain.  This historical fiction book takes place in Kenya in the 1920s.

I had great fun creating this tablescape.  Here’s a look at it:  No Passport Required…

MY TABLESCAPE

I knew I didn’t want to do a table with colors you typically see for an “African/Out of Africa” table theme:  oranges and browns.

  The main character, Beryl Markham, spends much of her time socializing with people such as Karen Blixen (who wrote the book, Out of Africa, under the pen name of Isak Dinesan).  Their crowd was primarily made up of British and Anglo-Irish expatriates who brought their luxury household items with them from Europe when they settled in Kenya.  Their dinner parties often consisted of crystal and linen tablecloths.  So I used their ‘upscale African’ dinner parties, and the characters as my jumping off point for the table.

"Circling the Sun" book tablescape

TABLE DETAILS

Copies of African maps from the 1920s served as my table runner

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Beryl Markham started her career as a professional horse trainer, and was the first woman to be granted a trainer’s license in Kenya.

"Out of Africa" table ideas

Her horses often won races – the reason for the horse and trophies on the table …

African animals, binoculars, a globe (showcasing Africa), and several candles (it was Africa in the 1920s after all)…

Out of Africa table decor ideas

A lantern and more African animals… I also hung a wooden bead necklace from the flowers

"Out of Africa" tablescape

In the early days of aviation, Markham took up flying and became a bush pilot – she would identify game animals from the air and notify their location to safaris down below.  Sadly, elephants and their ivory tusks were highly sought after back then – the binoculars and African animals symbolize the safaris…

By the age of 34 years, Markham became the first woman to successfully fly solo from England to America.  The airplane on the table is a cardboard version of the Vega plane she flew.

tablescape for "Circling the Sun" book

PLACE SETTINGS

I kept the place settings pretty simple –  inexpensive burlap-like plate chargers (purchased from Hobby Lobby) layered with ivory plates, blue print napkins tied with twine, crystal water glasses, and mismatched silverware …

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THE LUNCH

We usually start our lunch relaxing, and catching up with a glass of wine…

I added some cheese from England (since Beryl Markham was originally from there) to nibble on

book club lunch ideas

LUNCH IS SERVED

It was a cold, winter day – so what’s better than soup and a sandwich

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Turkey and ham with cheese …

book club lunch ideas

Marinara-based soup with pasta, sausage, spinach, and cannellini beans topped with parmesan cheese…

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Cupcakes for dessert…

A REVIEW OF THE BOOK

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I actually read Circling the Sun last fall. Just like the rest of my book club, I loved Paula McLain’s previous book, The Paris Wife. Even though I had never heard of Beryl Markham (who the book is about),  I really liked McClain’s writing style, and historical fiction books in general.  So when I saw McLain had written a new book , I immediately reserved a copy at my local library.

Paula McLain states in an Author’s Note, at the end of Circling the Sun, that “from the moment she read Beryl Markham’s descriptions (in Markham’s biography, West with the Wind) of her African childhood, Kenya’s seasons, and her extraordinary adventures, they took a powerful hold of her imagination”.  McLain then went on to research Beryl Markham and write Circling the Sun.

After I finished reading Circling the Sun and McLain’s Author’s Note, I was inspired to also read Beryl Markham’s biography, West with the Wind.  In addition, reading Circling the Sun also moved me to rent the movie, Out of Africa, which I had never seen before.  I liked the book, loved the movie, but really enjoyed learning about Kenya, and the British colonial lifestyle there in the 1920s.

Book Club Review

Overall, we rated Circling the Sun above average.  We just didn’t love it as much as The Paris Wife, and found it hard not to compare the two books.  We did have a great discussion from the book and found Beryl Markham to be a very interesting person to read about.  We also thought the book was well-written.

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Pre-Superbowl Dinner Party

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Some info about our Gourmet Group:  We are 4 couples who enjoy cooking, entertaining, and most of all, each other’s company. 
We take turns hosting in our homes.  The hosts decide on the menu (theme) from appetizers to dessert for the evening.  The hosts cook most of the meal, but give at least one course (along with all the recipes) to the other couples to prepare.  We love trying new recipes and ideas.  So most of the time the recipes are ones we haven’t cooked before, but they don’t have to be.

Last year, another couple from our Gourmet Group hosted our group for a “Pre-Game Dinner” the night before Superbowl XLIX.  Here’s a look back at the evening.

pre-superbowl dinner party

THE MENU

superbowl dinner party

COCKTAILS & APPETIZERS

We noshed on appetizers that gave us our fill of traditional Superbowl/football game foods.  The only thing missing was the (Superbowl) commercials.

Can’t have a football game without chicken wings…

These wings were a healthier version – baked – but still very tasty

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“Seattle” Shrimp with sauce…

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“Hot dogs on the 30″… always a favorite

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Chips ‘n dip… Yum!

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THE TABLE

Superbowl dinner party ideas

She used cute football-shaped wine glasses.  They doubled as place card holders.

football dinner party ideas

Football themed napkins…

football party ideas

Festive Football Themed Centerpiece…

Superbowl party ideas

DINNER IS SERVED

Soup Course:  New England “Patriots” Clam Chowder

low cal new england clam chowder

football themed dinner menu

delicious clam chowder

This was probably my favorite course of the dinner meal (in spite of the potatoes in it – in my opinion, potatoes don’t belong in any soup!)

This soup was a low-calorie recipe with fat-free half and half in it, instead of cream.  It was so de-li-cious!!

Salad Course:  Tomato Mozzarella Salad

tomato mozzarella salad

Always scrumptious…

The Main Entrée

Southern Coleslaw

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Twice-Baked Sweet Potatoes

twice-baked sweet potatoes

Superbowl dinner party menu ideas

We were in charge of cooking the Twice-Baked Sweet Potatoes – it was a healthy and flavorful recipe

Beef Brisket

beef brisket dinner party menu

A Full Plate…

beef brisket menu ideas

football dinner party

The beef brisket was tender & savory…

Dessert Course:  American Apple Pie a la Mode

American apple pie

I don’t care what time of the year it is – apple pie is always good

apple pie

And a la mode makes it that much better…

football dinner party ideas

A Toast to the Evening…

football themed diner menu

Superbow dinner party

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Barbie-Themed Bridal Shower

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Another couple’s daughter (from our Gourmet Group) also got married in 2014.

 This lovely, beautiful then-bride-to-be loved playing with Barbie dolls when she was young.  The hosts of her bridal shower took this fun time in her earlier life to creatively throw her bridal shower.

 They used some of her old Barbie dolls to celebrate the-bride-to-be’s personality, and highlight some of the memorable events of her life thus far.  Each Barbie was fashionably dressed and then showcased as the centerpieces for each table at the shower.  Here’s a look at this fun bridal shower theme:

PLACE CARD TABLE

bridal shower fun theme

 “Bridal Barbie” greeted guests when they walked in the door… A photo of the bride-to-be dressed up as a very young bride accompanied Barbie.

Each guest’s name & table were printed on a black luggage tag.  The black luggage tags then were tied with ribbon to either a Barbie sunglass or shoe luggage tag.

TABLE CENTERPIECES

Barbie theme bridal shower

The “Wizard of Oz Barbie” on this table represented the bride-to-be as a third grader when she played Dorothy in the school production.

Each table also had old photos of the bride-to-be featuring that particular time in her life…

creative Barbie theme bridal shower

“University of Illinois Cheerleading Barbie” symbolized several significant things in her life…

She had been on her high school poms squad

She went to the University of Illinois, and joined Gamma Phi Beta sorority

She met her (then-future) husband at U of I

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Barbie is dressed up for travel for this centerpiece… “Ciao Firenze” highlights her junior year in college studying abroad in Florence, Italy

Extra details were added to the centerpiece such as a passport, post cards, and mini books

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Barbie & boyfriend Ken are dressed in beach attire for some “fun in the sun”… Delray Beach is a past and current favorite vacation spot for the couple

fun & creative bridal shower

“Legally Blonde Barbie” celebrates the bride-to-be’s graduation from law school!

fun Barbie bridal shower

Barbie along with Ken are looking very stylish for their date going to see “The Book of Mormon”…

A very memorable night for the bride-to-be:  her then-boyfriend proposed afterwards!

THE CAKE

cake for a Barbie bridal shower

Naturally, only a lavish Barbie cake for this affair…

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Barbie in her pink convertible sits atop a cake pedestal…Highlighted the bride-to-be turning sixteen and getting her driver’s license

BRIDE SILHOUETTE

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The bride silhouette that was used on each “Table Name Card” (& was also part of the actual bridal shower invitation) reflected the same style of bridal gown that the future bride-to-be would wear.

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And they lived happily ever after…

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A Holiday Lunch for Book Club

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My book club gathered last week for some holiday cheer and to discuss our latest read.

The gal who hosted has a wonderful collection of hand-carved (vintage-looking) Santas.  Here’s a look at some of her holiday décor.

Christmas book club

Santa in her powder room…

book club lunch at holidays

Domed snow babies sit on her kitchen countertop…

hand carved Santa

These guys greet you at her front door…

hand carved Santa

A closer look…

book club lunch during winter

Another holiday vignette…

Check out the exquisite facial detail and expressions of the Santas and angels below…

beautiful hand carved holiday figures

hand carved Santa & angels

The next two Santas flank opposite corners of her foyer…

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HER HOLIDAY TABLESCAPE

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Christmas lunch for book club

A traditional, pretty red and green-themed Christmas tablescape…

holiday lunch tablescape

We all loved her Christopher Radko “Holiday Celebrations” dinner plates – a recent, awesome find at a resale shop…

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Cute Christmas table accessories – Santa napkin holders and butter plate…

LUNCH IS SERVED

book club lunch menu

A delicious salad with mozzarella, tomatoes, onions, black olives, and spiralized zucchini served with Zesty Italian dressing…

delicious rigatoni with sausage

We noshed on a very flavorful sausage rigatoni – with hot & mild sausage and 3 varieties of cheeses

Pistachio cake

Pistachio cake for book club lunch

She served a festive pistachio cake for dessert…

THE BOOK

Snow Flower & the Secret Fan book club discussion

The book we read and discussed was “Snow Flower and the Secret Fan” by Lisa See.  We all enjoyed reading this book.

This fiction book is set in the 1800’s in rural China and is narrated through the eyes of an 80-year old Chinese woman looking back on her life.  We learned so many fascinating things about the past Chinese culture and traditions such as the foot binding of young girls, the sworn sisterhood relationships between women, nu shu, and how daughters were considered worthless.

These topics made for a great book discussion.

Chinese footbinding book

A Brief Description of nu shu

Nu shu literally means “woman’s writing” in Chinese.  Historically in some rural parts of China, girls and women were forbidden to read and write.  In defiance of this, it is believed women created their own secret language (and kept it from men) to express themselves to other females.  It would be taught from one generation to the next.

According to Lisa See, women used nu shu to write letters, stories, and poems.  The writings were hidden in things like embroidery, weaving, and paintings on fans (hence, the name of the book).

Foot Binding of Young Chinese Girls

Chinese foot binding images

Photo credit: Jo Farrell
(via google images)

Is this what you envisioned the foot of a woman who had her feet bound at a young age to look like?

Chinese foot binding images

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Previously, I had imagined feet that were bound to be very tiny & pretty (normal-looking) feet – like a child’s foot might be…

Chinese foot binding photos

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Chinese foot binding was considered not only a mark of “beauty”, but also a way of raising one’s social status, and a prerequisite for finding a husband…

The foot binding process took over 2 years.  It was begun when a young girl was between the ages of 4 and 7 years old.  Foot binding was an attempt to stop the foot from growing.  The young girls’ feet would be tightly bound with a bandage (10′ long and 2″ wide) as to bend the 4 small toes under the sole, break the toes, and force the back of the foot together.  Bandages were removed briefly everyday or so, and then tightened again forcing the foot smaller and smaller.  The girls were forced to walk long distances to hasten the breaking of their arches.

It was an extremely painful process.  And the pain never really stopped…

Foot binding was also an attempt to keep women weak and dominated by men.

discussion about foot binding book

Our hostess borrowed these Chinese slippers from a friend to show us the size of them.  These slippers are 5 inches long (in contrast to a woman’s size 7 black shoe).

The most desirable bride in China possessed a 3-inch foot (Chinese measurement which is about 4-inches in our measurement) known as a “golden lotus”.  Four-inch bound feet were referred to as silver lotuses, and those larger than four inches were called “iron lotuses”.

Foot binding lasted for over 1000 years.  In 1923, the practice of foot binding finally became unfashionable.  By 1949, foot binding was gone except for a few remote areas of China.  There are a few remaining survivors of the practice still alive today.

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Photo source: Pinterest

Photo source: Pinterest

Wishing you find good gifts – of the “paper kind (books)” – under your tree this year…

~ Merry Christmas & Happy Reading ~

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Cranberry Colored Fall Table for Book Club

cranberry color fall table setting

My book club met earlier this week.  Our fellow reader/hostess created this fall-inspired tablescape and lunch.

HER TABLE

cranberry colored tablescape

table settings ideas for fall

Pretty china place settings with a cranberry colored table theme…

cranberry/red decorating ideas

As usual, she coordinated her hutch décor with her tablescape…

LUNCH IS SERVED

fall lunch ideas

chicken-stuffing casserole

book club lunch ideas

Chicken and Stuffing Casserole – this sure whetted our appetite for Thanksgiving…

lunch ideas for book club

Peas and pearl onions with bacon…

lunch ideas for book clubs

book club with food

All kinds of goodies in the salad like cheese, tomatoes, pea pods, tomatoes, and French fried onions served with a French dressing…

book club lunch ideas

Apple-cranberry crumble with vanilla ice cream…

OTHER DETAILS

fall themed book club

fall decorating ideas

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fall decorating ideas

A glimpse at a few of her fall décor vignettes…And yes, she took the time to re-cover a couple of books with her own DIY autumn book covers

THE BOOK

"Rosemary" book discussion

Our discussion this week was about the book, Rosemary:  The Hidden Kennedy Daughter by Kate Clifford Larson.

We had mixed reviews on this book – some highs, some lows

One gal has read many other books about the Kennedy Family and didn’t think this book was as well written as others.

The book is about Joe and Rose Kennedy’s oldest daughter, Rosemary.  Rosemary’s life is a heartbreaking story.  She suffered intellectually and developmentally from a brain injury incurred during her birth.  Joe and Rose Kennedy continued to seek and try various treatments for Rosemary’s disabilities with the last and most horrific one being a lobotomy.

We did have a very good discussion from the book about the Kennedy family, Rosemary, and mental illness in general including how treatments for mental illness has changed, resources for it have greatly improved, and family members are no longer hidden away.

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Source: google images

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Gorgeous Cobalt Blue and White Tablescape

cobalt blue & white tablescape

One of the gals from my Book Club hosted in her home awhile ago.  She put together this gorgeous, cobalt blue tablescape for our lunch.

The potted red begonias provided such a great contrast against the vivid color of the cobalt blue.

blue & white beautiful table

This woman loves blue & white…(a woman after my own heart)

gorgeous cobalt blue table

I’ve had a major crush on these white charger plates ever since I first laid eyes on them at her house years ago – an awesome find at one of her favorite shopping haunts, Home Goods.

beautiful blue tablescape ideas

I love how she layered the plates with the solid cobalt blue one in the middle…

beautiful blue table themes

Another one of her extraordinary finds at Home Goods – these beautiful napkins

HER HUTCH

blue table /decorating themes

Who takes the time (besides her) to do this??!! – Change out the décor in her hutch to complement her table theme

LUNCH IS SERVED

chicken salad ideas

Chicken salad with tomatoes and bacon, and deviled eggs…

And those deviled eggs were to-die-for

lunch in your home ideas

She served us each a ginormous, colorful fruit plate on the side…

book club lunch ideas

Yummy brownies with caramel & chocolate sauce drizzled on top for dessert…

THE BOOK

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The book we read and discussed was “The Children Act” by Ian McEwan.

We were all in agreement about this book.  Sorry to say, we all hated this book.  To put it simply, we found the characters to be shallow, unlikeable, and not believable.  We also found the storyline to be unconvincing.

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A Wedding Journey: Bridal Shower – “Girls Just Wanna Have Fun”

wedding journey

Note:  Originally, I hoped to be done writing all my “A Wedding Journey” posts within a year of my daughter & son-in-law’s wedding day.  However, due to unforeseen circumstances that arose this past year, I am behind on the posts, but please enjoy reading.

bridal shower ideas

Welcome to Part II of my daughter’s Bridal Shower Weekend.

This is a look at the bridal shower (“Friends Bridal Shower”) given by three of my good friends in honor of my daughter.  They decided on “Girls Just Wanna Have Fun” for the theme of the shower.  It was held on a lovely Sunday afternoon – one day after “The Family Bridal Shower” was given.  Both showers were held in my home.  This will be a closer look at the details specific to the “Friends Bridal Shower”.

If you haven’t and would like to see more of my decorating, tablescape, and other details I used for both showers, please visit my post “Family Bridal Shower” here.

THE INVITATION

cute bridal shower invitation with shoe

Since my daughter has a major shoe fetish, this bridal shower invitation also had to have a shoe on it.  I glittered the rhinestones on the handbag to add some bling to the invitation.

FRONT DOOR

bridal shower ideas

bridal shower ideas

One of the gals hosting the shower had this gorgeous “Bridal Veil Decoration” made by a florist for my front door to welcome the guests.  As you can see, the floral contained a mixture of beautiful fresh white flowers.  My girlfriend used the same aqua tulle from Hobby Lobby I used at my dining room table.  She also made a smaller, coordinating Bridal Veil to hang on my mailbox.  FYI, the veils required 9 yards of tulle to make them.

FASCINATORS & FEATHERS

fun bridal shower theme

Most of the guests got into the spirit of the shower and wore a fascinator, fancy hat, or some other type of fun fashion accessory, but to double the fun the hosts also offered several colors of feather boas for each guest to choose from and wear.

MY TABLE

aqua blue bridal shower

The number of guests that attended this shower was more than the day before and required me setting up an additional (folding/”kids”) table.  I set it up in my foyer – to keep it very close to my dining room.

 The table was moved away from the wall once we sat down to eat.  The three hosts immediately volunteered to sit at this table.  Some other mutual friends joined them at the table.

SHOE THEME DETAILS

The hosts were quite aware of my daughter’s shoe obsession and used a shoe subtheme throughout the shower.

bridal shower with shoe theme

Cocktail hour began with a stiletto holding a bottle of wine…

bridal shower ideas with shoe theme

The hosts used the phrase “The Perfect Pair” to carry out the shoe theme…

The advice cards were put together in a book (hence, the hole punch) with a special “The Perfect Pair” cover for the bride-and-groom-to-be.

bridal shower with shoe theme

A couple very quick games were played during the opening of gifts (with shoe-themed prizes, naturally)…

FOOD AND DRINK DETAILS

About a week before the shower, one of the gals called me to ask what time the chef could show up.  (What???!!!!…)

I had no idea about the chef, and was totally blown away by the extravagance they planned for the shower!

Cocktail Hour – A Toast

girls just wanna have fun bridal shower

A plethora of drinks were available, including a theme drink, along with a champagne toast to the bride-to-be (Cheers!)

pretty & colorful fruit kabobs

mini quiches for bridal shower

finger food ideas for bridal showers

An array of colorful, pretty, and delectable appetizers were offered…

Lunch is Served

bridal shower foods/salad

A scrumptious salad served in a parmesan basket…

We were also served a chicken dish for an entrée, but I totally forgot to take a pic of it.

bridal shower with a shoe theme

These gals were so amazing – they too ordered a cake from the bride-to-be’s favorite bakery.  The Perfect Pair cake was so cute & delicious!!

GIFT WRAPPING

bridal shower gift wrapping

My “Eat, Drink, & Be Married” gift for the bride-to-be…

bridal shower sweet treats

The hosts had a basket of sweet treats to go…

The Wedding Journey Continues…

A Wedding Journey blog

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Next up:  A Barbie-themed bridal shower…

A Wedding Journey is dedicated to my lovely daughter.  It was so much fun to be able to share this incredible time in your life,  I hope you always choose to dance.
And forever twirl in your dress!
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